Today and next week, I will share some wisdom from our Teacher, Wong Loh Sin See, that was first recorded in 1989— as a special holiday treat.
My dear friend, Elizabeth Lynch, is a long time student of the Teacher. For years she faithfully took fully transcribed notes of every class she attended, both in Atlanta and at the Wonderland retreats. These are not short reminder notes for herself, but detailed, verbatim records of all his words, as well as descriptions of our exercises and formations. She has volumes of these records. She recently sent me a passage from the past and has allowed me to share it with you as a holiday gift.
Acceptance by you creates the release. Without this, this coming to peace by you, you cannot release or change. You change and you effect the change in the other person. A person’s love for you will change as you change. Do not worry about the other person. You are creating their reaction. Patience; it will change by your acceptance. Healing takes time. It is easy to inflict wounds. Healing takes time. Healing is something we constantly do. Acceptance allows letting go. The more that is surfacing and the more acceptance, the more letting go. Have the patience to keep doing this.